Joseph’s Way

Here’s a link to a talk given by the OCDS General Delegate, Fr. Alzinir Debastiani OCD just a few months ago.

Alzinir’s talk on St Joseph 100416


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Pope to contemplative nuns: The Church needs you!

The Vatican on Friday published a new Apostolic Constitution, Vultum Dei quaerere (Seeking the Face of God), On Women’s Contemplative Life.

I can’t help but wonder whether this new Apostolic Constitution has some relevance to us as Carmelite Seculars…who seek the face of God for the Church and the world.

I’m yet to read the document, but the themes outlined in this article certainly have significance for us, don’t you think?

  • “Seeking the face of God”
  • “Promotion of adequate formation”
  • “Centrality of prayer and the Word of God”
  • “Lectio Divina”
  • “silence”
  • “attentive listening”
  • “the call to an interior life”
  • “stability”

Looks interesting!

Here’s the Vatican Radio article to whet your appetite.   The Church needs you!

Here’s a link to the full text of the Apostolic Constitution

Or download as a PDF document… Vultum Dei quaerere

While there’ll be much by way of legislative monastic matters that don’t concern us as Seculars, I think you’ll find value in the issues of common interest as outlined above.

The document was presented by Archbishop José Rodríguez Carballo, secretary of the Congregation for the Institutes of Consecrated Life and the Societies of Apostolic Life and ZENIT’s report may be viewed here: ZENIT Report


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A Prayer to the Blessed Virgin Our Lady of Mount Carmel

A very happy feast-day to all on  this Solemnity of Our Lady of Mount Carmel, 16th July 2016

What would you have the Blessed Virgin do for you?

O most beautiful Flower of Mount Carmel, Fruitful Vine, OLMC iconSplendor of Heaven, Blessed Mother of the Son of God, Immaculate Virgin, assist me this my necessity. O Star of the Sea, help me and show me herein you are my Mother.

O Holy Mary, Mother of God, Queen of Heaven and Earth, I humbly beseech you from the bottom of my heart, to succor me in this necessity; there are none that can withstand your power.

O, show me herein you are my Mother, O Mary, conceived without sin, pray for us who have recourse to thee. (Repeat 3 times)

Sweet Mother, I place this cause in your hands. (Repeat 3 times)

And what will you do for the Blessed Virgin?

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New LA Catholic Website –

It’s always great to find relevant, reliable, and up-to-date Catholic news and content for our growth and inspiration.  I hope you find the new website interesting and useful.

Advice from Dr. Scott Hahn – …also on Facebook:  Dr Scott Hahn’s Facebook Page

The Los Angeles Archdiocese just unveiled a new website, You’ll find regular news and content from Archbishop José H. Gomez, Bishop Robert Barron, Mike Aquilina, David Scott, John Allen, and many others, including myself. Be sure to check it out, and bookmark the site and visit often:

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The Death of a sister in Carmel, Sister Cecilia Maria

The beautiful and inspiring death of a young Spanish sister in Carmel, Sister Cecilia Maria, a Discalced Carmelite.

Her joy was accompanied — or perhaps explained — by a profound state of prayer .

Sister Cecilia OCD

She “has softly fallen asleep in the Lord, after an extremely painful illness, which she always endured with joy and surrender to her Divine Spouse,” her sisters in the Carmel of Santa Fe said in announcing her death.

You can read the story here:

The Death of a sister in Carmel


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The Psychology of St. Therese of Lisieux

Here’s a little something for those looking for more background info on St. Therese.  My thanks to Chris Firmstone for the link and his comments, and to Madelyn Nicol whose research turned up the video.

I would like to draw your attention to a very good presentation by Fr Marc Foley OCD on St Therese. As you know he is the editor of the Study Edition of Story of A Soul.

The presentation is quite long, over an hour in length, but I found it really good.

As you probably know, he is a Psychologist and experienced Spiritual Director. The presentation does bring out some of the themes of his book, ‘The Context of Holiness’ on the spiritual and psychological aspects of holiness in the life of St Therese.

One point that he makes is that St Therese never really recovered from the major crises in her life, which are the death of her mother, her scrupulosity, and her crisis of faith. He does say that it is not necessary for a person suffering from a psychological illness to progress in holiness.

He also said that there is a difference between belief in God’s mercy and the feeling that God is merciful. St Therese spent the whole of her life singing of the mercy of the Lord, yet she was dogged by scrupulosity. Although Fr Pichon went to extreme lengths to reassure her that she had never committed a mortal sin, she didn’t feel that this was the case.

 Yours in Carmel,


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Saint Therese of Lisieux – a Papal Primer.

As our Community begins to read and discuss St. Therese’s “Story of a Soul” in July 2016, I thought this talk by Pope Benedict XVI might interest you as a sort of ‘primer’ or pre-reading to whet your appetite for the main course.


St. Peter’s Square
Wednesday, 6 April 2011

Saint Therese of Lisieux

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

Today I would like to talk to you about St Thérèse of Lisieux, Thérèse of the Child Jesus and of the Holy Face, who lived in this world for only 24 years, at the end of the 19th century, leading a very simple and hidden life but who, after her death and the publication of her writings, became one of the best-known and best-loved saints. “Little Thérèse” has never stopped helping the simplest souls, the little, the poor and the suffering who pray to her. However, she has also illumined the whole Church with her profound spiritual doctrine to the point that Venerable Pope John Paul II chose, in 1997, to give her the title “Doctor of the Church”, in addition to that of Patroness of Missions, which Pius XI had already attributed to her in 1939. My beloved Predecessor described her as an “expert in the scientia amoris” (Novo Millennio Ineunte, n. 42). Thérèse expressed this science, in which she saw the whole truth of the faith shine out in love, mainly in the story of her life, published a year after her death with the title The Story of a Soul. The book immediately met with enormous success, it was translated into many languages and disseminated throughout the world.

I would like to invite you to rediscover this small-great treasure, this luminous comment on the Gospel lived to the full! The Story of a Soul, in fact, is a marvellous story of Love, told with such authenticity, simplicity and freshness that the reader cannot but be fascinated by it! But what was this Love that filled Thérèse’s whole life, from childhood to death? Dear friends, this Love has a Face, it has a Name, it is Jesus! The Saint speaks continuously of Jesus. Let us therefore review the important stages of her life, to enter into the heart of her teaching.

Thérèse St Teresa of Lisieuxwas born on 2 January 1873 in Alençon, a city in Normandy, in France. She was the last daughter of Louis and Zélie Martin, a married couple and exemplary parents, who were beatified together on 19 October 2008. They had nine children, four of whom died at a tender age. Five daughters were left, who all became religious. Thérèse, at the age of four, was deeply upset by the death of her mother (Ms A13r). Her father then moved with his daughters to the town of Lisieux, where the Saint was to spend her whole life. Later Thérèse, affected by a serious nervous disorder, was healed by a divine grace which she herself described as the “smile of Our Lady” (ibid., 29v-30v). She then received her First Communion, which was an intense experience (ibid., 35r), and made Jesus in the Eucharist the centre of her life.

The “Grace of Christmas” of 1886 marked the important turning-point, which she called her “complete conversion” (ibid., 44v-45r). In fact she recovered totally, from her childhood hyper-sensitivity and began a “to run as a giant”. At the age of 14, Thérèse became ever closer, with great faith, to the Crucified Jesus. She took to heart the apparently desperate case of a criminal sentenced to death who was impenitent. “I wanted at all costs to prevent him from going to hell”, the Saint wrote, convinced that her prayers would put him in touch with the redeeming Blood of Jesus. It was her first and fundamental experience of spiritual motherhood: “I had such great trust in the Infinite Mercy of Jesus”, she wrote. Together with Mary Most Holy, young Thérèse loved, believed and hoped with “a mother’s heart” (cf. Pr 6/ior).

In November 1887, Thérèse went on pilgrimage to Rome with her father and her sister Céline (ibid., 55v-67r). The culminating moment for her was the Audience with Pope Leo XIII, whom she asked for permission to enter the Carmel of Lisieux when she was only just 15. A year later her wish was granted. She became a Carmelite, “to save souls and to pray for priests” (ibid., 69v).

At the same time, her father began to suffer from a painful and humiliating mental illness. It caused Thérèse great suffering which led her to contemplation of the Face of Jesus in his Passion (ibid., 71rc). Thus, her name as a religious — Sr Thérèse of the Child Jesus and of the Holy Face — expresses the programme of her whole life in communion with the central Mysteries of the Incarnation and the Redemption. Her religious profession, on the Feast of the Nativity of Mary, 8 September 1890, was a true spiritual espousal in evangelical “littleness”, characterized by the symbol of the flower: “It was the Nativity of Mary. What a beautiful feast on which to become the Spouse of Jesus! It was the little new-born Holy Virgin who presented her little Flower to the little Jesus” (ibid., 77r).

For Thérèse, being a religious meant being a bride of Jesus and a mother of souls (cf. Ms B, 2v). On the same day, the Saint wrote a prayer which expressed the entire orientation of her life: she asked Jesus for the gift of his infinite Love, to be the smallest, and above all she asked for the salvation of all human being: “That no soul may be damned today” (Pr 2).

Of great importance is her Offering to Merciful Love, made on the Feast of the Most Holy Trinity in 1895 (Ms A, 83v-84r; Pr 6). It was an offering that Thérèse immediately shared with her sisters, since she was already acting novice mistress.

Ten years after the “Grace of Christmas” in 1896, came the “Grace of Easter”, which opened the last period of Thérèse’s life with the beginning of her passion in profound union with the Passion of Jesus. It was the passion of her body, with the illness that led to her death through great suffering, but it was especially the passion of the soul, with a very painful trial of faith (Ms C, 4v-7v). With Mary beside the Cross of Jesus, Thérèse then lived the most heroic faith, as a light in the darkness that invaded her soul. The Carmelite was aware that she was living this great trial for the salvation of all the atheists of the modern world, whom she called “brothers”.

She then lived fraternal love even more intensely (8r-33v): for the sisters of her community, for her two spiritual missionary brothers, for the priests and for all people, especially the most distant. She truly became a “universal sister”! Her lovable, smiling charity was the expression of the profound joy whose secret she reveals: “Jesus, my joy is loving you” (P 45/7). In this context of suffering, living the greatest love in the smallest things of daily life, the Saint brought to fulfilment her vocation to be Love in the heart of the Church (cf. Ms B, 3v).

Thérèse died on the evening of 30 September 1897, saying the simple words, “My God, I love you!”, looking at the Crucifix she held tightly in her hands. These last words of the Saint are the key to her whole doctrine, to her interpretation of the Gospel the act of love, expressed in her last breath was as it were the continuous breathing of her soul, the beating of her heart. The simple words “Jesus I love you”, are at the heart of all her writings. The act of love for Jesus immersed her in the Most Holy Trinity. She wrote: “Ah, you know, Divine Jesus I love you / The spirit of Love enflames me with his fire, / It is in loving you that I attract the Father” (P 17/2).

Dear friends, we too, with St Thérèse of the Child Jesus must be able to repeat to the Lord every day that we want to live of love for him and for others, to learn at the school of the saints to love authentically and totally. Thérèse is one of the “little” ones of the Gospel who let themselves be led by God to the depths of his Mystery. A guide for all, especially those who, in the People of God, carry out their ministry as theologians. With humility and charity, faith and hope, Thérèse continually entered the heart of Sacred Scripture which contains the Mystery of Christ. And this interpretation of the Bible, nourished by the science of love, is not in opposition to academic knowledge. The science of the saints, in fact, of which she herself speaks on the last page of her The Story of a Soul, is the loftiest science.

“All the saints have understood and in a special way perhaps those who fill the universe with the radiance of the evangelical doctrine. Was it not from prayer that St Paul, St Augustine, St John of the Cross, St Thomas Aquinas, Francis, Dominic, and so many other friends of God drew that wonderful science which has enthralled the loftiest minds?” (cf. Ms C36r). Inseparable from the Gospel, for Thérèse the Eucharist was the sacrament of Divine Love that stoops to the extreme to raise us to him. In her last Letter, on an image that represents Jesus the Child in the consecrated Host, the Saint wrote these simple words: “I cannot fear a God who made himself so small for me! […] I love him! In fact, he is nothing but Love and Mercy!” (LT 266).

In the Gospel Thérèse discovered above all the Mercy of Jesus, to the point that she said: “To me, He has given his Infinite Mercy, and it is in this ineffable mirror that I contemplate his other divine attributes. Therein all appear to me radiant with Love. His Justice, even more perhaps than the rest, seems to me to be clothed with Love” (Ms A, 84r).

In these words she expresses herself in the last lines of The Story of a Soul: “I have only to open the Holy Gospels and at once I breathe the perfume of Jesus’ life, and then I know which way to run; and it is not to the first place, but to the last, that I hasten…. I feel that even had I on my conscience every crime one could commit… my heart broken with sorrow, I would throw myself into the arms of my Saviour Jesus, because I know that he loves the Prodigal Son” who returns to him. (Ms C, 36v-37r).

“Trust and Love” are therefore the final point of the account of her life, two words, like beacons, that illumined the whole of her journey to holiness, to be able to guide others on the same “little way of trust and love”, of spiritual childhood (cf. Ms C, 2v-3r; LT226).

Trust, like that of the child who abandons himself in God’s hands, inseparable from the strong, radical commitment of true love, which is the total gift of self for ever, as the Saint says, contemplating Mary: “Loving is giving all, and giving oneself” (Why I love thee, Mary, P 54/22). Thus Thérèse points out to us all that Christian life consists in living to the full the grace of Baptism in the total gift of self to the Love of the Father, in order to live like Christ, in the fire of the Holy Spirit, his same love for all the others.

 Therese and future


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How to to Overcome Sins and Faults of the Tongue

Here are some interesting reflections and good advice from a Carmelite sister, based on retreat notes from a conference by Fr Thomas Dubay.

The sister is a nun of the Carmelite Sisters of the Most Sacred Heart of Los Angeles.

Access the article here:  Overcome Sins & Faults of the Tongue

If you find this useful, do leave a comment to encourage other visitors to the blogsite to read and ponder.



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Liturgical Prayer or Private Devotions?

As Carmelites, we are naturally very interested in the Church and its official worship or liturgy.  We are, after all,  vocationally committed to the Mass, the sacraments,  and the Divine Office.  We also, like most Catholics, have our favourite private devotions.  But is there a connection between public and private worship?  Is it ‘either/or’ or more like ‘both/and’?

I was interested to find the following excerpt in our PP’s weekly comments in the Parish Bulletin for 12 June 2016 and I thought you might like it too.

“[There is always] interplay between liturgy and devotion. The liturgy is first and foremost an act of the church. It comprises the official rites and understandings of a ritual or feast, is enshrined in the liturgical books and calendars, and seeks to guide and mould the worship and spirituality of the faithful. The liturgical tradition is marked by history, continuity, grace and change, but in this it offers the ecclesial sense of worship. Devotion and piety are quite different. They reflect the personal history and warmth in which believers, as individuals and groups, take up particular aspects of the mystery of God. 

Devotion and liturgy are closely connected, and it would be unfortunate to see liturgy as ‘cold’ and ‘official’, with devotion ‘warm’ and ‘personal’. In worship we bring our devotion and piety to the rites, and fill them with the experience, needs and desires of our lives. Yet devotions and pious practices have a life outside worship, and are given expression in countless ways. The Christmas nativity crib and plays; the Advent wreath; the peculiarities of our Lenten fast; the chocolate Easter egg or in Australia the emerging Easter Bilby; devotions and prayers around Our Lady, patron saints and the life are all faith-filled expressions of our lives in space and time, culture and community, history and eternity. While at times devotion and liturgical worship clash, most often our devotional lives and liturgical celebrations mutually enrich our appreciation of the Gospel and our participation in the life of the triune God, the human community and creation itself. Our pieties need to be firmly anchored in the liturgy of the church, while the enculturation of our worship is often best done through devotional insights and practices.”  (Gerard Moore, Earth Unites with Heaven, 13-14)

If that whets your appetite, here’s a link to Amazon where you can read a little more from the book, review the contents, or, indeed, purchase the book…for about $18.30 + postage.

Earth Unites With Heaven: An Introduction to the Liturgical Year


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Vague Wanting = 0

Do I want God or am I ‘diddling around in the contemplative life making itsy bitsy statues’? writes Good Samaritan Sister Patty Fawkner.  A confronting post from The Good Oil   -   the e-magazine of the Good Samaritan Sisters.

A few thoughts that stand out for me:

“Tell me what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life.”

Our lives, yours and mine, are too precious to fritter away on lukewarm commitments and half-hearted vows

Commitment is an ongoing issue. I have had to make the choice for God and to pray to want God again and again and again.

Nesting numbs, dabbling drains and complacency kills commitment.

Love is the fuel and fruit of commitment. And like love, commitment is difficult and demanding. It is not an abstraction, nor is it a technique. It is personal and relational and its currency is space and time. So I make the time and I create the space for the one to whom I am committed, reassured by the mystics that where God finds space, God enters. And I make time and create space daily. “How we spend our days is, of course, how we spend our lives,” counsels Annie Dillard.

This really is a confronting, compelling article we can all fruitfully ponder.

Thank you Sister Patty!

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